You are amazing

It doesn’t matter if you work full time or are a stay at home mum.
It doesn’t matter if your child is in day care or at home with you.
It doesn’t matter if your child goes to swimming lessons or learns in a paddling pool at home.
You have your reasons.
Only you know what’s right.
You are amazing.

It doesn’t matter whether you use reusable nappies or the ones from the local grocery store.
It doesn’t matter whether your baby uses a dummy or is left to winge for a while. It doesn’t matter whether you use a baby monitor or are ok with them sleeping at the other end of the house.
You have your reasons.
Only you know what’s right.
You are amazing.

It doesn’t matter whether you bed share or have a strict rules around sleep.
It doesn’t matter whether you feed them to sleep or let them try and self settle. It doesn’t matter whether you have a routine or just go with the flow.
You have your reasons.
Only you know what’s right.
You are amazing.

It doesn’t matter whether you let them have screen time or only allow books.
It doesn’t matter whether you shower them with new clothes or only buy from second hand shops.
It doesn’t matter whether you stop breastfeeding at 3 months or whether you are still going when they are 2 years old.
You have your reasons.
Only you know what’s right.
You are amazing.

It doesn’t matter whether you prefer to spend time at home or be out every day. It doesn’t matter if you have weekly skype calls with family members or whether you just catch up when you can. It doesn’t matter whether you shower with them or let them have their own bath.
You have your reasons.
Only you know what’s right.
You are amazing.

It doesn’t matter if you decide to your children close together or far apart.
It doesn’t matter if you use a surrogate or adopt.
It doesn’t matter if you have a home birth or birth in the hospital.
You have your reasons.
You know what’s right.
You are amazing.

All that matters is that your baby is happy, healthy and loved.
All that matters is that you feel supported, you know your worth and enjoy the ride.
All that matters is that you are doing your best, doing what’s right and not caring what others think.
That’s all that matters.
Only you know what matters.
You are amazing.